Tuesday, 29 October 2013

Guideline helping prevent suicide

To parents- we need to build a very healthy relationship with you, a relationship where by we talk about everything and be open and honest with each other we need to have that connection with you, whereby if there is something wrong with me you as a parent you can sense it and make sure that we deal with it positively. parents think that the only language that we understand as teens is the strong one, but that is the language that drives us to the edge. TALKING - talking to the child and being open with it not shouting can be the only life saving method that a parent can use to take out the suicidal thoughts from the child. It is not easy for parents to accept the fact that their children have reached the dating stage but it is here and happening what else can they do, than to sit with the child and talk with it instead of being the over protective parent why don't you try to be the understanding friend (with limits of-cos). -Sometimes we need just to get the thing that is killing us inside out of our chest but we lack people to talk to that is why we need the mother to try and work hand in hand with the child. Some families do not want to accept teen dating but what can they do it here and happening, instead of being angry and not paying attention to the stressed child try and talk with the child and make sure that, they know that there are limits, because you are now understanding and open to new things it doesn't mean, the parent will be the one that is stressed. working together as a family and talking can save so many teenagers from suicide. To teens- no one will ever love you more than your family does, your family will never cheat on you with their love, your family will never take advantage of the fact that you love them back. And no one will ever love you more than your own creator which is God, he would never protect you for nine months and the rest of the days that you wake up every morning and travel by any type of transport, and then fill happy when he sees you taking your own time after all the hard work he went through protecting you against every evil thing surrounding you. Why look for love that will make you happy for a short period of time and depressed for a long time.

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